The Start Of The Affair

The past week has been chaotic for me and i do not wish to start this month thinking about the storm that is invading my peaceful abode.

Today, I was 12 minutes late for work for the reason that my cousin had PC problems and had to fix at the last minute when we were about to ride a cab. On the way to Buendia, where i work, we talked about un-talked of relationships, meaning---affairs.

Why do people find it immoral to have an affair? On the contrary, why do some people do it, and think it's OK?

I put myself in this situation, I am married and in danger of becoming single again. I never had extra-marital affairs within the "so-called" marriage and i never want that to happen. Ever.

It is hard for my situation as i have just ended a marriage "doomed to fail". i have been living separately from my husband for two months now and just last week was the finale of it. No filing of Annullments yet, however, we have declared ourselves Single again. (And this whole thing doesn't involve a 3rd party, to make it clear) Maybe, i am qualified to have an affair?

For some people, when the marriage is going well, either of the spouse would not think about having an affair. The question is, why have an affair in the first place? With the bond of marriage, you purposely, responsively commit to one another your whole life of honesty, fairness, respect for each other, and what have you. And for some reason, one would still deviate and have an affair.

Whatever! Married or not, you have to end your present relationship first before entering a new one.